Archive - my unserious life

soft girls in fascist times

My publication is called My Unserious Life, but nothing feels unserious anymore when I watch the same five ugly men ruin our planet in real time.

Jun 15 •

May 2025

no one wants to have children anymore, and as a mom, I understand why

the problem with a system that expects women to keep our species alive while acting like a dude who wants to split the bill

May 21 •

and

will we survive saying 'I love you' more?

how a date in Jordan changed my brain chemistry

May 10 •

April 2025

we don't need uber, we need villages

a love letter to friendship

Apr 30 •

you've healed enough today

your weekly pep talk not to take life so damn seriously

Apr 3 •

March 2025

the art of living unoptimized

Kids know this. We forgot this.

Mar 6 •

January 2025

the anxiety you're rewarded with for being a girlboss

Ever since I was a little girl, I knew I didn’t want to work for a middle-aged white man who tells me how much money I will make and when I can schedule…

Jan 17 •

December 2024

(un)fortunately, i will stay the same

While you’re all busy writing down your 2025 goals, I’ve decided to stay the same.

Dec 31, 2024 •

2024 sucked? Don't worry, it's just you!

Everyone else’s year was wildly stunning!

Dec 21, 2024 •

November 2024

We're All Underf*cked from Our Own Overdependence

I recently had a moment.

Nov 18, 2024 •

give me the short story long

I’m sitting in a little café at my guesthouse in northern Thailand, waiting for my pancakes, when I overhear a man, seemingly in his 70s, and a woman…

Nov 11, 2024 •

October 2024

just give me like a year to figure out my life

welcome to my quarter life crisis

Oct 21, 2024 •

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